Thursday, May 31, 2012

Legs, Legs, Legs!

As most of you already know, Luke is a toe walker.  He wasn't always.  We first noticed that he just couldn't get flat when we moved back to VA in late 2010.  Thinking back and looking at photos he started toe walking when we lived in California.  I guess all of that sun, sand, and flip flops just let him rise up on his toes.  Then getting to Virginia when it was cold he was wearing boots and jeans most days so it really covered up the situation.  When he'd be home and barefoot we'd ask him to walk flat foot.  As the months passed his version of flat foot started to include sticking his butt out as he walked.  Then a few months later he's say, "ouch, ouch, ouch" with each step.
I took him in to see his doctor who wrote it off.  I went back a week later and another doctor took me seriously, and put in a physical therapy consult.  We waited months to get into physical therapy so of course he got worse.

We learned that Luke was a toe walker due to short Achilles Tendons.  When I speak of 'range' I'm using the scale they taught me.  Here's a quick rundown.  Negative range is on the toes, Neutral is flat foot, and Positive range is being able to get the toe up high above the heal.  Luke was -15 on the left foot and -15+ on the right.  (I think their measuring tool only went to 15).  "Normal" is +15 with a heal to toe walk.
We did therapy for a few short months and saw some improvement and we saw an amazing Orthopedic Surgeon at CHKD.  He recommended continuing therapy and let us know that surgery (if done now) would need to be repeated every year or two because every time Luke grows, his tendons would be too short again.  He said no matter what, he will most likely need surgery at 10-12.  Then Luke's therapist quit, we went back on the wait list, he lost range, and we were back where we started.  But we had AFOs made, we fought weekly to get a better fit.  Never did they actually work on him, so after 2 months we gave up and went back to the Orthopedic Surgeon.  He gave us two options, putting Luke under and stretching him as much as he could and casting in that position or get back in therapy.  Of course we did not want out baby on the operating table, surgery or not so he did everything in his power to get us therapy at CHKD asap, bypassing their HUGE wait list.  CHKD is the best, everyone wants to have their kids seen there, so we were grateful!  Sure enough, he came through within a week.  So quickly I was still fighting our insurance, and rallying prayers from anywhere I could get them.  God does things in his own time though and the day of the therapy, as I'm prepared to write a $400. check to not lose that precious spot, I get a call that the insurance went through.

Luke's therapist is amazing, he does so much at therapy now that he never did at the old location.  We were not welcome to go back at our old location, here we are encouraged to get involved.  And we have a 1 hour slot once a week, we are making huge strides!  Luke was very close to neutral!  Then his therapist recommended serial casting and the Orthopedic Surgeon signed off on it quickly.  We were told there was a wait list for that as well.  So I didn't stress about the insurance going through right away.  Two days later they had an opening, if I didn't take it he'd be waiting a few months, and as my belly was growing with baby #3 I didn't want to wait.  So I went to battle with my insurance.  They wanted me to drive one hour each way, once a week, for 6 weeks to the Naval hospital for casting.  I wanted all of our care at CHKD, minutes from our home.  Lots of tears, stress, and requests for prayers and God came through again, ON THE DAY OF THE APPOINTMENT!
Week 1 of casting, he was walking on his toes all week, how could this help?  
Week 2 of casting, still on those toes!  But we saw some great progress week 1 even on the toes so we put our faith in the professionals.  (He cannot walk for 1 hour after casting as he allows them to dry properly.)
Week 3 Luke was up to +10 range!  Enough to cast for AFOs!  And he picked some crazy Black & Glow in the Dark White Casts for the Pirate Festival that weekend!  

I'll keep you updated on his progress!  Thanks for reading!


Saturday, December 31, 2011

Clomid Baby?

This year we have welcomed 3 adorable nephews into the world.  Jake, Nicolas, and Jaxon are some of the cutest babies I've seen in years, and I'm not just saying that because they are our nephews!  Being so far away is rough but we visit when we can.
Waiting for all of these boys to be born & seeing so many close friends enjoying their babies, Justin and I got the 'baby bug'.  Crazy enough after having two kiddos at a young age, here I was at 28 with no cycle for a year.  No birth control for 7 months while hubby was deployed and still, no cycle.  At first we thought we were pregnant the first birth control free month, but test after test came up negative.  And if you didn't know... you can't become pregnant when your husband is deployed... so I waited.  After 6 months of no cycle I headed to the GYN.  I started meds to bring on a cycle.  One month success, the next nothing.  This continued through-out deployment.  Justin gets back and my GYN put me on Clomid.  If there's one thing military wives know, it's that 'deployment babies' happen quite often.  With the guy gone for so long, the woman not on birth control... he returns and BAM!  Month one they are pregnant.  That wasn't us, even with Clomid.
Christmas time 2011 and I'm gagging at everything... we have family members who smoke and it's always bothered me and Justin.  I just assumed that was it considering I didn't have a cycle in October or November again.  But sure enough, I was pregnant!
So excited to be expecting baby #3!  What a blessing!

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Infant Car Seat Cover

I saw this adorable Car Seat Tent online right after an old friend from High School had his son.  (Without going into too much detail...)  His son spent quite a while in the hospital and underwent a few surgeries.  Never did the family's faith fade, they stayed positive.  How could I show them support from a couple of hundred miles away? I let them know that I was praying for their precious son but after stumbling on the tutorial I mentioned above I thought, "Every parent of a newborn should have one of these to keep people from touching their babies!  A baby who has been in the hospital for as long as their son REALLY should have one."  And so I contacted my friend who loves to sew, bought the fabrics, and away we went!  I didn't get many photos as we went because after doing some cutting I was chasing my friend's 11 month old around while she did the major sewing.  But here's a few:

The straps almost ready to be attached.

Ta-Da!  All finished!


Cup Cake Hats

My Aunt makes these adorable hats for just $5.00 each!  Aren't they precious?  If you'd like one for your little cupcake please let me know!  Although you can't tell from the photos the frosting on these is pink with rainbow sprinkles.  Both are chocolate cake!  <3

Crafty... Me? No Way!

I gave it a try and succeeded!  Yes, I sound shocked, because I am!  I thought this would be WAY too hard for me to pull off, but I was able to do it.  What am I talking about?  I made this pretty flower and turned it into a head band.
Here's some photos... to prove that I pulled it off!  LoL.
(Please feel free to click the photos to enlarge them!)


First I traced a lid that was about 4 1/2" across 8 times.  4 on each fabric.

 Then I cut the 4 circles out.

I then folded them in half and ironed them flat.

 Using a ruler I cut each circle in half where I had ironed them.

 I then folded the halves in half (inside out).

 Using a sewing machine I sewed one side of each half circle.  (No cutting yet!)

 I then cut them apart and turned them right side out.

 I hand stitched the bottoms of 10 of them together, rotating fabrics.

 I repeated the above with the last six petals for the top layer.
(This is where you could also sew them together.)

I decided to add glitter to the flowers using Elmer's, a paint brush, and some sprinkle glitter.

 I then sewed the two layers together and cut the extra threads.  
I used a hot glue gun to add this cute embellishment in the center to hide the stitching. 
I used my flower as a head piece by using hot glue and mounting it onto a metal head band.

Again, thanks to the above mentioned blogger for the great idea!  I thought there were WAY too many steps, but I pulled it off and would try it again!  And Elise, thanks for cheering me on while working on your head piece!  It's nice to be reminded that it doesn't have to be PERFECT!  <3  



Sunday, April 24, 2011

Silly Facebook

Sometimes Facebook brings back really old wall posts, and highlights them on the side of the screen.  I've seen some that are well over a year old pop up on there.  Anywho... from now on, when I see one I liked, I'm going to share it here.  :-)

Hubby's Status Update:

Deploying never gets easier... seeing Jen and my babies in tears as I leave is the hardest part of my job. I love you Jen, Lex, and Luke. Dad will be back home soon.
January 3 at 8:33pm ·  · 
    • Julie Adamson Van Patten Good luck out there and stay safe out there.
      January 3 at 8:34pm · 
    • Jenn Flory Stay safe Justin! We'll keep you all in prayer!
      January 3 at 8:34pm · 
    • MaryAnn Landin Ugh :( Stay safe!!!!
      January 3 at 8:34pm · 
    • Mary Kindred Williams Keeping y'all in prayer....God bless.
      January 3 at 8:47pm · 
    • Jon Weber Just know that what you are doing is making them more proud of you than you can ever know.......they will appreciate it and many like you forever......as will all of your friends.......YOU'RE THE MAN!!!!!
      January 3 at 8:51pm · 
    • Carol Riley Be Safe Justin! God Bless! Good Luck!
      January 3 at 8:55pm · 
    • Kevin McCabe We are all thinking of you! Our prayers are with you and your family!!! God Bless!
      January 3 at 9:01pm · 
    • Stacy Shaw Doody Travel Safe! Lots of prayers for you and Jen and the kids!
      January 3 at 9:02pm · 
    • Angel Coughlin Get home soon sailor
      January 3 at 9:04pm via Facebook Mobile · 
    • Jennifer Sanchez Our prayers are with you. Be safe and God bless you and your family! Most of all, thank you for your service!
      January 3 at 9:04pm · 
    • Robert Stump II Be safe out there man. Oh. And. don't drop the soap ha ha ha
      January 3 at 9:10pm · 
    • Samantha Kindred Be safe Justin!!!
      January 3 at 9:23pm · 
    • Barry Becker Justin, it's never easy to leave family & friends that love you. Our Prayers will be with you, while God watching over you during your deployment.
      January 3 at 9:30pm · 
    • Jennifer L. Riley Ily
      January 3 at 11:04pm · 
    • Jason Van Patten Justin we haven't had much time to even talk let alone get together lately, but it goes without saying that if your family ever needs anything, our family is just a call away. Be safe brother.
      January 3 at 11:27pm · 
    • Martha Faith Rushnock We'll be praying for you, Justin!!!!!!!!!!!! Psalm 118
      January 4 at 7:24am · 
    • Debra Morey Manning Praying for you guys. How long will you be gone this time? I will especially pray fr Jenn and the kids. Thank you for your service to our country.
      January 4 at 12:01pm · 
    • Barry Becker Justin, its never easy to leave when a family has so much love for each other. Our prayers will follow you each day to let God know how important this love keeps a family together. To bring you home safe while keeping our country safe.
      January 9 at 4:27pm · 

The Bump, The Bump, The Bump, Bump, Bump!

As some of you already know, Alexyss will head to the Oral Surgeon tomorrow morning to have her 'bump' removed.  They are undecided as to weather it's a Mucous Cyst or a Blocked Saliva Duct.  It has been a long journey, but we are glad to see it coming to an end.


Back story:
When we left PA the last week of Jan. we noticed a bump on Lex's lower lip.  It was on the inside and we assumed she had bit her lip at some point.  She denied this, but who really knows?  About 2 weeks later it hadn't gone away and was changing from white to pink, then to red and purple.  I asked her doctor about it and she said it was a clogged duct and there was nothing they would do about it.


Almost exactly one month after noticing the bump I took the kids for their dental cleanings.  I asked the pediatric dentist about the bump and he confirmed my thoughts;  it needed to be removed.  He told us that it would never go away, it would just continue to get bigger and then shrink, bigger and then shrink.  


Around the second week of March I went back to the pediatrician (this time a different dr. saw us) and she agreed with the written word of the dentist and put in a referral to have the bump removed.  At this point the bump was not only getting longer but also wider and covering more skin.  One morning before school Lex had bit down on it while eating cereal and it gushed blood quite badly.  
While waiting for the referral Alexyss started to become annoyed at it's ever-changing size and color.  She had had enough of not being able to use a straw, and it breaking open.  We went to see the Oral Surgeon last week and he reassured her that it was for the best to have it removed. She has been worried about the removal since the dentist described it to her.  The Surgeon did his best to reassure her.


So tomorrow is the big day!  The Surgeon will numb the area and administer laughing gas.  He'll use a laser to remove the bump and apply a few stitches.  She'll be as good as new and home eating milkshakes, pudding, yogurt, and the likes while they biopsy the 'bump'.  


Thanks to everyone for your words of encouragement for Alexyss!  


Update:
The surgery got pushed back a day due to some poorly submitted paperwork.  So this morning we headed back to the O.S.  We waited for over an hour and a half as they tried to change my mind about the anesthesia.  Initially we had chosen the 'Laughing Gas'.  We then found out that our insurance didn't cover any of that cost.  When I asked about other options they said they could lightly sedate her with IV anesthesia.  I decided I'd tell Alexyss the options and let her decide.  We went over the 'laughing gas' first:  Breathe in medicine, needle to numb area, laser surgery - All while awake.  Next was the IV anesthesia:  Needle in the arm, asleep through everything else.


Alexyss chose to be asleep.  She had started to panic in the chair upon seeing the laser.  That was when they again told her they'd use a needle to numb the area more and she broke into tears.  And yet, they tried to talk ME into laughing gas.  I told them she could decide and I'd sign the papers.  They paraded in 3 people to talk us out of our decision to use anesthesia.  
Finally when the dentist saw how upset she was he agreed with us.  He checked the 'bump' and said there would be no need for stitches as it was small today.  He asked Luke and I to leave so they could begin and my heart broke walking away from her while she was in tears.


After about 10 - 15 minutes we were brought back to keep an eye on Lex while she came out of the anesthesia.  Her lower lip was not symmetrical and I could clearly see stitches.  The nurses said the surgery went well and the doctor would explain everything to me when he could.  
When we finally got to see the doctor he said that he was very glad we had chosen to let her sleep through the surgery.  He said that it was a lot deeper than he had thought therefore it took a bit longer and required stitches.  He also said that because it was so deep he's not sure that he was able to get it all and it may return.  It's a "wait and see" game now.  We'll head back to the Oral Surgeon next week for the biopsy results so I'll update more then!


As of now, Alexyss is resting comfortably.  He lips feel 'weird', but otherwise all is well.  We stopped at Sonic for Milkshakes - so she's 100% content.  


Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers!  Please feel free to leave a comment below.  I'll share them with Alexyss later when she's feeling a little more awake.